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Post by Sigflanagan6 on Mar 21, 2013 20:37:54 GMT -5
So I went to Wal-Mart tonight after work to grab some milk. As I get out of my car I hear this guy yelling and look and see him repeatedly shoving his girl hard against a car. I mean hard. I see another lady trying to stop him while trying to dial the phone at the same time. Guy wasn't big, but clearly upset and again, was really shoving this girl hard. What would you do?
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Post by Voodoochile on Mar 21, 2013 20:43:14 GMT -5
So I went to Wal-Mart tonight after work to grab some milk. As I get out of my car I hear this guy yelling and look and see him repeatedly shoving his girl hard against a car. I mean hard. I see another lady trying to stop him while trying to dial the phone at the same time. Guy wasn't big, but clearly upset and again, was really shoving this girl hard. What would you do? Why the hell would someone go to Wal-Mart to pick up milk?
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Post by TommyDee on Mar 21, 2013 20:47:46 GMT -5
Go grab the 2nd girl first, pull her away and tell her to call the cops. Try to talk the guy away, get them seperated if I have to. Either way, not leaving the scene until I see that she is okay.
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Post by Sigflanagan6 on Mar 21, 2013 20:51:49 GMT -5
So I went to Wal-Mart tonight after work to grab some milk. As I get out of my car I hear this guy yelling and look and see him repeatedly shoving his girl hard against a car. I mean hard. I see another lady trying to stop him while trying to dial the phone at the same time. Guy wasn't big, but clearly upset and again, was really shoving this girl hard. What would you do? Why the hell would someone go to Wal-Mart to pick up milk? Live in small town, grocery store was out of the way, Wal-Mart across the street. Convenience
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Post by Voodoochile on Mar 21, 2013 21:03:50 GMT -5
Why the hell would someone go to Wal-Mart to pick up milk? Live in small town, grocery store was out of the way, Wal-Mart across the street. Convenience All we have is a huge super Wal-Mart here and just to pick up some milk would be a half mile trek from the lot. To answer your question I would have called a cop (not 911) and approached the guy with the cop on the line. Kind of helps if you know several and have their cell numbers. I also would have been armed as I always am.
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Post by G&T on Mar 21, 2013 21:40:07 GMT -5
Facebook crossover, can't believe I've been sucked into Facebook the last couple weeks as much as I have, what a zoo. But, the weekend was epic and my emotions are still in tatters from it all.
I'm raising my voice a lot and yelling at the guy, letting him know I'm calling the police and that I'm armed.
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Post by TommyDee on Mar 21, 2013 21:44:48 GMT -5
Who is the first to say they drive away?
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Post by G&T on Mar 21, 2013 21:49:31 GMT -5
I've driven by those situations, I'm not a cop. But walking out of Walmart I'm doing something.
I wondered for a while a couple weeks ago if Phenom was a cop.
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Post by acejack on Mar 21, 2013 21:52:01 GMT -5
Grab a cart and start running at him top speed. Right before you give some lucky chiropractor a customer for life, yell: "FOR ASGARD!"
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Post by flats on Mar 21, 2013 22:04:52 GMT -5
I take advantage of the fact that I'm at Walmart and quickly purchase some lighter fluid. Douse the woman with it and set her on fire.
He'll probably leave her alone at that point.
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Post by Voodoochile on Mar 21, 2013 22:09:47 GMT -5
I take advantage of the fact that I'm at Walmart and quickly purchase some lighter fluid. Douse the woman with it and set her on fire. He'll probably leave her alone at that point. I don't know what your grade will be but I give you an A- for this answer.
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Post by Sigflanagan6 on Mar 22, 2013 1:19:57 GMT -5
I had about a minute to process this situation. I reacted. Every time he shoved her he cocked his arm back as if he was going to hit her. I couldn't be ok just standing and watching a man punch a woman. I figured help was most likely on the way. I walked up behind him, put him in a bear hug and gently placed him on the hood of his car, pinning the back of his neck down with my elbow. Kept telling him to calm down and not make the situation worse for himself than it already was. Took 3-4 times of me "gently" pushing his head down and telling him to calm down for him to actually calm down. Once I had him pinned, other bystanders came over to restrain him. Cops showed up, they all know me, small town, and that was the end of it.
What I did was probably dumb as fuck. Could have gone horribly for me, but I'd rather me get my ass kicked helping a defenseless woman, than a defenseless woman get her ass kicked while I did nothing.
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Post by TommyDee on Mar 22, 2013 7:35:05 GMT -5
So did you fuck her?
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Post by BrownstotheBone on Mar 22, 2013 7:35:32 GMT -5
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Post by Sigflanagan6 on Mar 22, 2013 7:45:55 GMT -5
Her and her friend. I ever tell you about the time the bus driver passed out?
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Post by BrownstotheBone on Mar 22, 2013 7:53:35 GMT -5
You fucked the guy too? Hey brownsphenom is that gay?
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Post by Diz on Mar 22, 2013 7:56:15 GMT -5
The problem is, in that relationship, shit like that probably happens all the time. They probably had great makeup sex later that night.
That being said, i've always had the special ability to talk people down and probably would of attempted to do so. I wouldn't of touched the guy like sig did unless he came at me first, in which case i would of grabbed him by the throat with my left hand and showed him my cocked back fist that was zeroing in on his nose.
Most guys that like to beat up on women don't like confrontation with other males so if you can talk to them they will usually calm down before shit gets violent.
If it were 2 women going at it, i stay away. Bitches be cray. You can't stop 2 women from fighting, they don't give up.
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Post by TommyDee on Mar 22, 2013 7:59:15 GMT -5
See diz, just yesterday you said you had no skills. Now go make a living out of this.
(that kid's gonna be alright)
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Post by G&T on Mar 22, 2013 8:07:27 GMT -5
The problem is, in that relationship, shit like that probably happens all the time. They probably had great makeup sex later that night. That being said, i've always had the special ability to talk people down and probably would of attempted to do so. I wouldn't of touched the guy like sig did unless he came at me first, in which case i would of grabbed him by the throat with my left hand and showed him my cocked back fist that was zeroing in on his nose. Most guys that like to beat up on women don't like confrontation with other males so if you can talk to them they will usually calm down before shit gets violent. If it were 2 women going at it, i stay away. Bitches be cray. You can't stop 2 women from fighting, they don't give up. More likey he beat the hell out of her even more later that night. We confronted a guy many years ago for beating his wife who was a friend and that's what he did. Cops showed up and arrested him at their apartment and she was finally able to get out. She met a new guy a year or so later and moved on with her three kids and new husband.
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Post by Diz on Mar 22, 2013 8:10:09 GMT -5
In reality, she probably deserved it so i would of just ignored the situation and walked right past them.
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Post by Sigflanagan6 on Mar 22, 2013 8:12:02 GMT -5
The problem is, in that relationship, shit like that probably happens all the time. They probably had great makeup sex later that night. That being said, i've always had the special ability to talk people down and probably would of attempted to do so. I wouldn't of touched the guy like sig did unless he came at me first, in which case i would of grabbed him by the throat with my left hand and showed him my cocked back fist that was zeroing in on his nose. Most guys that like to beat up on women don't like confrontation with other males so if you can talk to them they will usually calm down before shit gets violent. If it were 2 women going at it, i stay away. Bitches be cray. You can't stop 2 women from fighting, they don't give up. Sad part is, you're right. And yeah I should've probably tried to talk him down, and thought about it, but figured if he saw me coming it could only escalate. Total reaction.
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Post by BrownstotheBone on Mar 22, 2013 8:55:08 GMT -5
When I first moved to Van Nuys, CA the band was living in an apartment where some people next door were always causing commotion. One afternoon we thought we heard a fight and somebody being thrown up against a wall and screaming.
So we all agreed it's time to call the cops and save this woman from "the beast" (some hairy Russian looking dude with an ugly old green truck) So we did. Nothing happened for at least 45 min. Grant it. It's L.A. They have their hands full. But come on.
Next time it happened we called again. This time they came but not before neanderthal man could peel out of the driveway in his ugly old green truck. The 3rd time it happened we called again and they came and took him away. Hurray!
Or so we thought.
Turns out this chick was a "gypsy" and after we killed neanderthal man from coming back she had crazy drug parties every night and went WILD. Blasting bad music and all kinds of traffic in and out. I mean black low-rider Mercedes Benz drug mobile kind of traffic like every night... IN AN APARTMENT COMPLEX!
Moral of this story? We fucked ourselves out of any peace and quiet for the next year and a half before she finally got evicted.
Turns out neanderthal man had a point, but went about it the wrong way. At least we saved her from another beating.. even though she almost gave me a nervous breakdown.
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Post by brownsphenom on Mar 22, 2013 8:59:49 GMT -5
You fucked the guy too? Hey brownsphenom is that gay? Sigs not gay, he just has sex with men. It's called keepin it on the down low (DL). Lets not judge Sig, this is an open place where we share all our faults
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Post by Diz on Mar 22, 2013 9:00:44 GMT -5
Phenom, what would you do? Thrown him in the trash compactor?
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Post by G&T on Mar 22, 2013 9:04:05 GMT -5
You fucked the guy too? Hey brownsphenom is that gay? Sigs not gay, he just has sex with men. It's called keepin it on the down low (DL). Lets not judge Sig, this is an open place where we share all our faults Talk about too much gay man knowledge.
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